As I get ready to send my second son off to college I am thinking about graduation, because in a way I feel like I’m graduating too. Perhaps mothers should be invited to write High School graduation speeches. But of course we never are. Our eighteen year olds stopped consciously listening to us awhile ago. But if we lived on an alternate planet and he asked what I thought about him graduating, here is what I would say: Outside of someone else doing harm to our children, what